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confessions

come on, let's do this!

dh is still mad at me over march madness.

i want to continue bfing just to have access to the quiet of the pumping room, where i can play bejeweled.

dh starts new job at the beginning of next month.  he will travel for the whole first week.  i kind of hate that, but i am looking forward to -- as he puts it -- "crappening up the dvr" with all my terrible shows (hoarders starts soon!!!).  on the other hand, i look forward to him working from home and telling me what happens on "the price is right" each day.

we started this new database system at work, and it is just the least user-friendly thing i have ever seen in my life.  it's now taking me an hour to fill out a form that i could do in 15 minutes, which fills me which much shame.  it's also one more username and password to remember, and all the old dudes here cannot remember them to save their life, so i think everyone's password is still set as "password."
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Re: confessions

  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    one of dh's hs friends was having an affair.  wife found out, and sent out this email to ALL his friends about it, and asking for their support as they try to rebuild their marriage.  dh is really upset about it, and i understand, but I ALSO WANT TO KNOW ALL THE DIRT.  i'm kind of having a hard time not pestering him about it, but the letter was insanity.
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    "i want to continue bfing just to have access to the quiet of the pumping room, where i can play bejeweled."

    This...Except I read books on my Kindle.  My pumping time at work is the best 'me' time I've gotten in 2 months.
  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_confessions-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:5dba01ba-666a-4246-81af-3bdf8ca08b19Post:8800295e-e0db-49b0-a145-ca6d8e8b6923">Re: confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]one of dh's hs friends was having an affair.  wife found out, and sent out this email to ALL his friends about it, and asking for their support as they try to rebuild their marriage.  dh is really upset about it, and i understand, but I ALSO WANT TO KNOW ALL THE DIRT.  i'm kind of having a hard time not pestering him about it, but the letter was insanity.
    Posted by hmonkey[/QUOTE]

    WE want to know the dirt!!  Pester Mr. Hmo.  It's for the good of WW!
  • ~~Busy.~~~~Busy.~~ member
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    edited December 2011
    confession:
    I love PN new hair cut but I hate Tanks.  I told hubby if he messes up Tank's hair one more time he would not be allowed to take him to the barber anymore.  We are a big forehead family, our son can not get away with a crewcut.  He looks like he joined the airforce.
  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    I missed a booty call last night.  I am glad the phone ringing didn't wake me up - Mama Leg was tired and needed her z's.  
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  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm going away for a girl's weekend in Myrtle Beach and leaving H alone with Baby A.

    It's likely they won't leave the house the entire weekend.

    I'm strangely more worried about flying than leaving Baby A.
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  • edited December 2011
    my boss just mentioned transferring my ipad to someone else when I leave. I was hoping they wouldn't mention it so I wouldn't have to give it back. Darn.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    I have no confessions. 

    I am lame. BUT,  if you send out a letter to friends re: your cheating spouse, isn't that humiliation, therefore NOT helping your marriage?  ???

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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    it was basically: we're in trouble, here's why, and we need your support.  i hope you guys understand why we're not friends with anne anymore.  and why our kids aren't going over to "auntie anne's" house anymore.
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  • LoveMuffinsLoveMuffins member
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    edited December 2011
    FI's ex sent him a facebook message a month ago saying how she 'just randomly thought about calling him, but doesn't have his number anymore... her number is the same if he ever wants to talk' (b*tch he changed his number for a REASON). I accidently came across it - and as soon as i saw it read it. i fessed up to him and he wasn't upset at all. he's not writing her back, or responding in any way cuz she's le crazy.

    Buuuuuuut yesterday i found out that she's coming back into town for the summer (we have a couple mutual facebook friends... normally she's across the country, 3000 miles is just perfect). and i was super uber bad and immediately went and checked FI's facebook (def not an accident this time) to make sure she hadn't tried writing him again.

    Nothing. i'm not sure how i feel about that, because i feel VERY sure that she's not done trying since we're getting married in September. so now i feel like i wasted my peeking.... i'm going to feel 80 million times worse if i peek again.
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  • LoveMuffinsLoveMuffins member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_confessions-11?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:5dba01ba-666a-4246-81af-3bdf8ca08b19Post:431f7efc-c0a4-4af2-8d59-40ceb1730cac">Re: confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]it was basically: we're in trouble, here's why, and we need your support.  i hope you guys understand why we're not friends with anne anymore.  and why our kids aren't going over to "auntie anne's" house anymore.
    Posted by hmonkey[/QUOTE]

    duuuuuuuuude woah...

    i would wnat to know the dirt too =D although, as you can prob tell from my confession, i can get kinda nosy =P
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    that reminds me -- dh got an emailed wedding invite from an ex gf of his.  i only know because he asked me to read his email while he was going through his whole job transition.  i kept waiting for him to bring it up, and he didn't for like a week.  finally i asked in my very nice way, "WERE YOU GOING TO TELL ME ABOUT THAT WEDDING INVITE?"  dh was all, "whaaaa?  oh, THAT.  i forgot."

    so ...

    1) rude not to tell me
    2) rude not to rsvp
    3) why the smurf wasn't i invited?
    4) he had the nerve to ask me if we should buy them a gift.  BUY THEM A GIFT WITH YOUR OWN MONEY, FOOL.
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  • *Barbie**Barbie* member
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    edited December 2011
    i have a project that i need to be working on but spent the entire day cleaning up a mess that never should have existed in the first place. whyTF don't people understand if they want someone to perform a service for them, that those people  need to get paid and will be pissed if they're not?
    I'm annoyed so i took a long lunch and am now planning to leave early because DK and I have dinner plans tonight, and I am just DONE.
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    My bro works here too, he walked in...was working in his office and I had half a mind to ask him if he had weed on him.  Seriously, reeked.  WTF dude?  :-/
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011

    my parents gave me a little money to buy some new clothes.  i didn't tell dh, and just deposited it in my personal spending account.  dh just noticed it (he was opening all the mail), and asked me if i was dealing meth.  should i have told him?

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