Wedding Woes

thanks for sharing!

Dear Amy: My boyfriend and I have been together for five years and for all intents and purposes are a family, along with my teen daughters and his preschooler.

The other day we drove by an "adult dance club" and my boyfriend turned to my girls (ages 12 and 16) and told them that while he was in college he used to work there as a dancer.

They replied with an uncomfortable and confused laugh and I quickly changed the subject.

I do not judge my guy for this past part-time job but I don't think it was appropriate for him to share this information with my daughters without checking with me first. I told him later that I felt It was inappropriate and confusing information to share with them. I feel he needs to respect my wishes not to bring this up again. He thinks I am overreacting.

What do you think?

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Re: thanks for sharing!

  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited January 2012
    That wasn't information to share.  I wonder if the 12 yo even knew what the place was.

    Side story- we drove past one of those the other night.  6let wanted to go there for dinner.  He threw a massive tantrum when we went someplace else.
  • Boundaries, people! BOUNDARIES!
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_thanks-sharing?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:5fb5e688-cdf1-44b6-b61e-5f6fd46965f3Post:e4320330-a34b-4e95-8476-f00ad274b2d6">Re: thanks for sharing!</a>:
    [QUOTE]That wasn't information to share.  I wonder if the 12 yo even knew what the place was. Side story- we drove past one of those the other night.  <strong>6let wanted to go there for dinner.  He threw a massive tantrum when we went someplace else.</strong>
    Posted by 6fsn[/QUOTE]
    6let is hilarious.
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