**David if for some reason you're reading this look away now!**
I'm a total AW today but I think I found the dress! I love it and I feel like a bride in it. I started off wanting straps - like straight tank style straps. I think I still do. I don't like my shoulders and would feel more comfortable with the straps especially later in the reception when I might have to put my hair up. I found another dress that has the straps but didn't have the other details I wanted. This one has all of the details but no straps. I'm thinking of adding plain chiffon tank straps to this gown.
What do you think? Add the straps or no?
It might also help to know that I want to wear my hair down and I'm planning on wearing a mantilla veil (lace trim) made from the lace of my mom's wedding gown during the ceremony.
Covert pics and pardon the back fat as this sample was at least a size too small:

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