Wedding Nightmares

6irlinacage

I just wanted to share a nightmare I have been having lately. If any of you have any stress enduced nightmares (or anything else) that you want to share, feel free ^_^ I'm listening

First I'll start with telling you what has really happened to add to this nightmare. So my FI (Andy) and I are getting married 12-21-12. If you aren't fermilliar with this date, alot of people think the world is going to end because that is the date the Mayan calander stops on. It's really freaking a lot of people out. The Mayans, simply call it "A New Beginning". My FI and I do not at all believe that the world will end that day. And getting married will be "A New Beginning" for us so we figured that that would be a perfect day to get married. Well he asked his brother (James) to be the best man at our wedding. He said no because, being a firm believer in the whole end of the world theory, he is going to attend an End Of The World party. This didn't bother me too much because James and I don't particularly get along anyway (he thinks I'm controling. Which I'm not at ALL. He is just never around to see that.). Well this kind of upset Andy but not enough to want to change the date so he is just going to ask someone else. Not that we don't want him there (as much as we don't get along, he is STILL Andy's brother) or in the wedding but if he turned the offer down there's not too much we can do.

So for a few months now, I've been having this nightmare that on my wedding day, James shows up completely hammered, screaming and carying on and breaking stuff saying that I wouldn't LET him be a part of the wedding. This is really scarey considering this is REALLY his personallity and there's a possibility he would ACTUALLY do this. 

I guess if my nightmare did turn into a reality he would be the one to look stupid. Right? Still though, let's hope that doesn't happen. haha

So what are some of your nightmares? Or funny dreams? Or even crazy things that actually happened to you?

LittleMissCutiePie

We have a friend who's offered to make our wedding cake. Neither of us were particularly attached to the idea of a cake, and she asked if she could do it for practice, since it was something she wanted to get into. We said sure. One night, I had a dream. Me and FI were at our receptional venue right after the wedding, setting everything up. Our friend comes in with the cake. An enormous, 300 pound (at least) cake. It's circular, with at least six tiers. We want a square 3-tier. It was also bright pink, which does not go with our navy-blue lime-green colours. I mentioned it was beautiful  (it was), but not what we wanted. She starts freaking out at us (I should probably mention she's like the most mild-mannered person I've ever met), and then starts chasing us with the cake. All of a sudden, the cake sprouts teeth and big "Muppet-esque" eyes, and flies around the room, dive bombing us, trying to eat us!

That is the strangest wedding dream I've had yet.

6irlinacage

Wow. haha. That's craziness. I love it. That's probably one of those dreams where I would wake up, think about it for a minute, and just BUST OUT laughing ^_^ I'm sure your cake will be beautiful though. I too like the square cakes ^_^

RaptorSLH

Haha, muppet monster cake!  That's wonderful!  So much more interesting than the dreams I have.  

6irl, if this is also an actual concern, you may consider telling venue staff, or hiring a bouncer to take care of any unexpected and unruly guests.  It's a bit early to be worrying about things now, but should his behavior closer to the date continue to give you concern, it is an option.

6irlinacage

Thank you. I know it's still really early to be worrying about it I am just one of those people. I always have to give myself plenty of time to plan and stress and worry about everything because I procrastinate a lot. I do however think that he would have enough respect for his brother to NOT do this. It's just that it wouldn't surprise me AT ALL if he even tried to do it. I might consider doing that though when it gets closer to the date if I have to.  I just am not too sure how I feel about telling someone "okay if you see Andy's brother. DON'T LET HIM IN" haha I'll figure it all out though ^_^ There's still a little time