Wedding Woes

am I crazy..??

ladies please hear me out on this one. I am engaged to my wonderful fiance Kenny and he is truly the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. We are gonna get married in about 11 months and we have done a lot of research on what we would like the big day to look like.

now, while I love the idea of getting married, i honestly don't feel like a bride.. this is supposed to be the greatest time in every woman's life but although I'm really excited about planning I realize I hate all those traditions. But my fiance wants a somewhat traditional wedding (he says there's gotta be a white dress, veil, and someone walking me down the aisle). I'm fine with that. But I realized that the reason why I probably dislike all those traditions and stuff, is because I just don't feel like a bride (yet). I hope this changes soon... right?
I moved half way around the world for this man - and I'm so happy I did!

Re: am I crazy..??

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_am-crazy-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:6ac77a38-79dd-44f5-9387-f49f143ccb85Post:b0c7b655-ca74-4961-8c8f-577831585476">am I crazy..??</a>:
    [QUOTE]ladies please hear me out on this one. I am engaged to my wonderful fiance Kenny and he is truly the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. We are gonna get married in about 11 months and we have done a lot of research on what we would like the big day to look like. now, while I love the idea of getting married, i honestly don't feel like a bride.. this is supposed to be the greatest time in every woman's life but although I'm really excited about planning I realize I hate all those traditions. But my fiance wants a somewhat traditional wedding (he says there's gotta be a white dress, veil, and someone walking me down the aisle). I'm fine with that. But I realized that the reason why I probably dislike all those traditions and stuff, is because I just don't feel like a bride (yet). I hope this changes soon... right?
    Posted by annraj[/QUOTE]

    Meh, you may not change your mind. If you don't it's no big deal. If he absolutely needs that then maybe you should step back and take another look at your differences and decide from there.
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  • thanks Nukke, that is true. I guess I'll just "grow into it". just had a weak moment lol. thanks knotties :)
    I moved half way around the world for this man - and I'm so happy I did!
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