I know that there can be battles that will occur while planning your wedding. I was just curious if other brides had some difficulty with their FMIL. Mine was ok in the beginning, but now it seems that she is arguing with us left and right. She's only helping with the honeymoon and my parents and I are footing the rest.
My FH was deciding on a fourth groomsman (he wanted an even number after saying it could be uneven). He sugessted a friend of his or my brother, but she didn't like that. She wanted one of his cousins since no one from her side of the family even thouhg the groomsmen are his 3 brothers! Also he didn't want to pick favorites among his several male cousins (only one female cousin and she's a great friend to me and a BM).
She then wanted to add cousins that I don't know and FH doesn't know well. We had a 100 ppl on the guest list and we're at 135 right now. He's frustrated and doesn't really want her input anymore. I would like to include her since she doesn't a daughter. I just don't like arguing over every detail with her.
How should I handle this?
