We established a savings account for our wedding more than a year ago with the intent of keeping money in there for wedding expenses and paying small expenses as we go since we don't carry credit cards. However, we have had a problem with my fiancee's family periodically borrowing money from my fiancee for various things. I don't understand the need for them to borrow anything from her when they know she has to save every dime she can, especially when he mother says she must save and she is one of the borrowers. Both of us are in school part-time and I have to pay rent so one of my checks goes to that. Her family has been more than generous helping out with some of the major payments but I don't think that is a permission slip to borrow from her. She does try to work overtime at her job to compensate for lost money. I, however, can't work overtime at my job. Is there any way I can get her to start putting her foot down and start saying no to her family when they start asking her for money?