I read some really questionable advice in one of the posts below. The kind that makes you wonder if she's being sarcastic or kidding and you're just not getting it. I was going to give her the benefit of the doubt, and decided to look up some of her other posts in the hopes of finding that she was really a nice, normal, sane person.
Instead, I found
THIS. It's exactly what you'd expect a cash bar thread to be, but if you scroll about halfway down it gets extra-stoopid, starting
with "I completely agree! We are doing a cash bar for the harder stuff. If I'm going to be paying for my own drinks, cuz I don't drink beer, then they can too. I'm the one that's paying for the wedding and yet I'm still gonna be paying for my mixed drinks!" and continuing with "You can tell me I'm rude all you want, but that's the way I'm having it. Really I'm not having a wedding to please all my guests. It's MY day not my guests day!"
ETA: Start on p. 3. TK won't let you link to a specific page within a post, apparently.