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sara_jean08

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Cant_wait!

Does he want groomsmen? He doesn't have to have them.

baconsmom

So, if he doesn't ask, he doesn't have them at the wedding. I'm not seeing why you're getting all panty-twisted about it. 

You're not going to let your future children experience natural consequences, either, are you? Of course not. 

TheDuckis

So tell your FI if he doesn't ask his guys by X date that they're going to have to wear suits instead of tuxes.

baconsmom

Your fiance is a grown man, right? He should be able to take care of this himself. Order the programs when they have to be ordered, and don't worry about the rest of it. 

6fsn

7*6= 42.  You have 9 mnore days to get the tux order in.  If he doesn't by then tell him he's paying the deposits out of his fun money or he's not going to have any groomsmen.  Then DROP IT.

One big program?  What's the point in that? 

NOLABridesmaid

Why should you stroke out about it, and he is going along La-Di-Da?

If he doesn't ask, then he won't have any. Your girls will walk and stand next to you. There aren't any rules about these things, and if anyone says anything, point them in his direction.

Does he always drag his feet with things? This is probably something that y'all need to talk about.

sara_jean08

Unfortuately to rent the tuxes and put the deposit down we have to have measurements (which we don't have) and money (we do not have any extra fun money to do it for them_... though it was a good thought.

6fsn

Then I guess he's not going to have groomsmen.  This is not your problem.

katorigasuki

i'm thinking this isn't the only time he procrastanates in his life, is it?

you might want to address that before walking down that aisle.

Mioh1

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_51-days-fiance-still-not-selected-his-groommen-man?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:859965a1-d8e8-4252-9a21-f258fb4e6dadPost:b891471a-63d1-4bfc-813c-9467a072ce42">Re: 51 Days to Go- My Fiance still has not selected his groommen or best man HELP</a>:
[QUOTE]I almost forgot. I once saw on Oprah that this wedding party was hit by a drunk driver on the way from a wedding and the brides niece was decapitated and her head landed in her mothers lap. She picked it up and cradled it along the highway. That is pretty horrific.
Posted by Wifezzilla[/QUOTE]



I remember that... =(

ks3pink

Yall are being mean.  I know where she's coming from.  He does need to be the one to ask the GM but once he does it can be left up to you to make sure they guys get the tuxes rented.  And 6 weeks is right, 2 weeks is ridiculous.  I'd sit down with him and talk about it, my fiance procrastinates too but when he has to do it he will, this is kinda extreme so I feel your pain.  And FTR I see your point about the programs.  I'm with ya if no one else is!

Janelledumais

What is up with writing everyone is going to die on the wedding day....that's pretty sick to even think about so who the heck would want to hear about the possibilty of it happening on their big day from a complete stranger!!