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CandiStarr:

Loosing Faith

What do you do on the Bump, when you feel that comments to your post are taking a prejudice turn?

I previously posted a question on the Babies on the Brain board "Help me is this normal".

I asked the women has anyone experienced wanting to be pregnant again.  My reasons are because I do miss the feeling of being pregnant, and my significant other wasn't in the position to be as active as I would have liked.

Everyone just zeroed in on the reason he wasn't able to be there.  Versus the question I asked.  I was really asking for help regarding the question asked.  Not about my significant other. And the things some of the women wrote were horrible. And it really made me loose faith in the sisterhood/commraderie that I usually find on this site.

My only reason for posting it on this board, is because I know that here people get that not every family is designed to be the same. It the diversity in opinion that I appreciate, and knowing that I wouldn't be judge.

 

Link: http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/45558393.aspx


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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    CandiStarr:

    Loosing Faith

    What do you do on the Bump, when you feel that comments to your post are taking a prejudice turn?

    I previously posted a question on the Babies on the Brain board "Help me is this normal".

    I asked the women has anyone experienced wanting to be pregnant again.  My reasons are because I do miss the feeling of being pregnant, and my significant other wasn't in the position to be as active as I would have liked.

    Everyone just zeroed in on the reason he wasn't able to be there.  Versus the question I asked.  I was really asking for help regarding the question asked.  Not about my significant other. And the things some of the women wrote were horrible. And it really made me loose faith in the sisterhood/commraderie that I usually find on this site.

    My only reason for posting it on this board, is because I know that here people get that not every family is designed to be the same. It the diversity in opinion that I appreciate, and knowing that I wouldn't be judge.

     

    Link: http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/45558393.aspx


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  • shauna85shauna85 member
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    edited December 2011
    Dont  worry about what other people say !  some people just love to stir things up  so they don't have to look at there own lives. I have been in some what the same postion my pre husband has 2 children from past relationships and i had one from a past as well i was very young and was unable to enjoy my first pregnancy. I ended up getting pregant was able to enjoy it and i think everyone deserves that.  And as for his legal problems  everyone has done something stupid in there life so as long as he has learned there should not be a problem. stick in there everything will work it self out. 
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh Shauna.  Isn't a preh-husband really just a boyfriend? 
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    OMG...I'm so glad this is the first thing I read this morning.  I really needed to laugh.
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  • tawillerstawillers member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_stripper-girl?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:85b2a80d-4de7-42d9-ae50-64dcdd7a882dPost:0df5741c-9066-459b-bc6f-c843a22d55ba">Re: More from stripper girl...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Dont  worry about what other people say !  some people just love to stir things up  so they don't have to look at there own lives. I have been in some what the same postion my pre husband has 2 children from past relationships and i had one from a past as well i was very young and was unable to enjoy my first pregnancy. I ended up getting pregant was able to enjoy it and i think everyone deserves that.  <strong>And as for his legal problems  everyone has done something stupid in there life</strong> so as long as he has learned there should not be a problem. stick in there everything will work it self out. 
    Posted by shauna85[/QUOTE]

    I haven't.

    Also, you missed the point completely.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    No. Not everyone deserves everything. Life happens. Sht happens. Do I "deserve" some magical potion that will make me enjoy having my body taken over by a parasite? Because that's how I felt when pregnant, and nobody was in effing JAIL, and nobody had nine kids from seven different relationships, because I know how to choose a decent, honorable man. 

    When people talk about entitlement, this sht is what they mean. You don't deserve anything except what you've worked for. Happy pregnancies can't be worked for, and aren't deservable. End of story. 
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  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    I highly doubt I'm going to miss ANYTHING about being pregnant. I may appreciate the end result, but being pregnant does not rank up there with things I enjoy or look forward to at the end.

    She's super dumb for many reasons.
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  • L_WoodsL_Woods member
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    edited December 2011
    Henceforth I will refer to Man as my pre-husband.
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  • shauna85shauna85 member
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    edited December 2011
    6fsn    pre-husban  = getting married 
               boyfreind = not


    tawillers  wow i didnt know there was people in this world who was perfect i guess i was wrong  
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  • arbolitaarbolita
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    edited December 2011
    I love having my threads sorted by most recent post.  Otherwise I would miss amazing gems like this.
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_stripper-girl?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:85b2a80d-4de7-42d9-ae50-64dcdd7a882dPost:9ef96006-b6fc-4751-a9c5-62766c12d207">Re: More from stripper girl...</a>:
    [QUOTE]I love having my threads sorted by most recent post.  Otherwise I would miss amazing gems like this.
    Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]
    Ha!  I know.  ;)

    Shauna-You're responding after 6 months?  Really?!
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  • shauna85shauna85 member
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    edited December 2011
    ya I know.  I have been kinnda busy latey lol
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  • shauna85shauna85 member
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    edited December 2011
    ya I know.  I have been kinnda busy latey lol
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