Suppose that you are under 40ish and and you've been married for 10 years or less. Your H dies. You buy a cemetery plot/mausoleum unit/ticket to the moon for his body or ashes.
Questions: Do you buy a neighboring spot for yourself? Or do you hold out in case you want to be buried or interred next to a future husband?
Does having children together make a difference? Would being married for more than 10 years make a difference to your decision? 15 years? 20?

I just a friendly gal looking for options.
