MIL wanted to come every month until September. She wanted to come in May after Mr. Chubbers was born to see him. I said no, it was too soon especially since she'd stay with us. Then she wanted to come this month. DH told her no that time. She is coming in July for nephew's baptism and staying for 5 days. But then she wanted to come in August. And again in September for nephew's 1st birthday.
The problem is that each time she wants to come...she stays with us. She can't afford plane tickets and a hotel room and a rental car.
I told DH that he better not even think of giving her any idea that while she's here she's watching Mr. Chubbers. I pay for day care, he's going.