Sooo I'm getting married in 38 days, I can't wait!! BUT my fiance's ex girl friend is now going around and telling people that she plans on showing up at the Church to ruin our wedding. She's also been theatening our mutual friends who are invited guests telling them "they better not come to our wedding". Do I have a right to call her out to her face?
I've already tried sending her a facebook message and calling her on the phone (left a voicemail) but she's completely ignoring me with no response. Both times I was extremely respectful because I don't want to start a fight, I just want the nonsense to stop- this is my wedding we're talking about.
Here's the back story- I've been dating my fiance for 5 years now. We met in high school, while he was dating another girl (his ex). It was well known high school drama that he was always in love with me, and his ex knew this because she found IM conversations we had together that he saved on his computer. They dated for little over a year in high school and broke up when he was a freshman in college. After his freshman year of college when he came home for summer (I had just graduated high school) is when we started dating (about 6 months after they broke up). Of course there was drama with her in the beginning, but we were young and stupid and it went both ways. I tried apologising to her for all the mean things I said a few years ago, she refused to accept my apology and continued to talk sh*t about me but I decided to just ignore it. For at least 3 years now I was under the impression it was water under the bridge and everyone had long since forgotten all about it.
