OH VENT!!!

LaurenLee615

My future sister in-law which is also a bridesmaid is pushing me to the edge!  EVERYTHING about my wedding she has had to make a snarky comment about.  I do not care if she doesn't agree with my wedding details.  If she doesn't like it she doesn't have to be in it or come!  Y'all I'm talking she had a bitchy comment about the font I chose for my invitiations.  seriously?!?!  AHHHH!  Not only that, she has now started commenting on my clothing, weight, hair, makeup, etc just in my everyday life!

How do I deal with her?

Cat24

well first you have to scout out a dark basement with no windows and lots of insulation where noone can hear her scream...then you lure her down there and lock her in until the wedding.....

Or more realistically, stop talking to her about the wedding at all, and just give her the thanks for the opinion but it's none of your beeswax and avoid her whenever possible until the wedding.

Butter Cookie

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[QUOTE]My future sister in-law which is also a bridesmaid is pushing me to the edge!  EVERYTHING about my wedding she has had to make a snarky comment about.  I do not care if she doesn't agree with my wedding details.  If she doesn't like it she doesn't have to be in it or come!  Y'all I'm talking she had a bitchy comment about the font I chose for my invitiations.  seriously?!?!  AHHHH!  Not only that, she has now started commenting on my clothing, weight, hair, makeup, etc just in my everyday life! How do I deal with her?
Posted by LaurenLee615[/QUOTE]


Either ignore her, or put her in her place.

SIL, I appreciate your opinion but this is my wedding. Also? My weight is<strong><u> none</u></strong> of your business. Do not bring it up again.

GBCK

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[QUOTE]well first you have to scout out a dark basement with no windows and lots of insulation where noone can hear her scream...then you lure her down there and lock her in until the wedding..... Or more realistically, stop talking to her about the wedding at all, and just give her the thanks for the opinion but it's none of your beeswax and avoid her whenever possible until the wedding.
Posted by Cat24[/QUOTE]
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Excellent.
I hearby approve this message :-P

sexymander

I know how you feel.  I'm having issues with my sister.  She's four years older and has decided that everything I do is wrong (even if it's not wedding related).  She's always been rude and I've lived with it, but she's been a thousand times worse since I got engaged.  It's gotten to the point I can't talk to her without her starting a fight, especially around mom.  She's actually gone to our mom when I'm not around and started to complain about my fiance, even if she has to make something up to complain about (last complaint was about the sound of his voice, seriously!?).  I get the joy of my mom complaining to me about everything my sister says since she takes her side. 
All I can say is to ignore her and not bring up anything for her to complain about.  If she starts to complain just throw something her way like "we can't all be perfect can we" and drop the subject.