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Every bleeping time

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I don't know why I get my hopes up that DH will get his act together to get the eff out the door.  He knows it pisses me off when he putzes around.  The plan was to leave 6let in the woods with everyone and go to my parents to sleep with M2.  10 mins ago he decides he should stay in the woods with 6let.  Does he have a sleeping bag? nope.  Does he need me to put together sheets and sh!t so he can sleep? yep

If we were going to his family I wouldn't do it, but I want to get the eff out of here and see my family!  I told him straight up yesterday (on the fated oil change trip) that I want to leave as soon as possible after he gets home and he STILL pulls this.
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    Oh this is even better....instead of me packing sheets he wants to go to effin MEIJER to buy a sleeping bag.
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    I think it's okay if you put some itching powder in that sleeping bag.

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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    Sleep in the woods?   You lost me.
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    My family rents a church camp in the woods for tday.  It's bunk style rooms for people to sleep in so you either need bedding or a sleeping bag. 

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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    Oh I see.  And yeah, I'd want to shanking your H to for his shenanigans. 
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  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    You have two cars, right?  I'd be taking them both.  Grab yo' kids, grab yo' suitcase and go.  He can follow up with his newly purchased sleeping bag whenever he's ready to go.
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    We were going to get gas on the way out of town.  To try to speed the process I took the kids.  The system said I had no rewards and wouldn't take a credit card.  Eventually a woman comes out and says the reward system is down and the cc is just taking awhile.  I told her she should put up a sign.  Her reply was that it just happened 10 mins ago.  Me "yeah, and it takes 2 mins to make a sign that would help your customers."  Woman at the next pump gave me the b!tch look.

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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    V- the plan last week was for me to leave with the kids ~1.   Then he said he was going to take off work at 1230.  Which SHOULD put us leaving at 2 so it didn't seem worth driving 2 cars 1.5 hrs away.  It's 115 and he's just leaving the office.  Traffic was a mess just going to the gas station.

    Now he wants to know if we need ice.  GET THE EFF HOME YOU BASTARD.  THE ONE THING HE NEEDS TO DO IS GET HOME, SHOWER, AND PACK which he should have done last night.  Except last night he decided he needed beer to take. grrrrrr
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    And I know I'm blowing this out of proportion.  He'd never pull this with his family though. 
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  • GBCKGBCK member
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    Dude, I'm the flakey person in my house and I do NOT think you're blowing this out of proportion.

    I'd put razor blades in his ice cubes or somethin.
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited November 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_every-bleeping-time?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:aabad518-0350-45f1-8288-b7e2a67017b7Post:aa369c7f-1abd-4e47-b67c-1063cfcd4d4e">Re: Every bleeping time</a>:
    [QUOTE]And I know I'm blowing this out of proportion.  <strong>He'd never pull this with his family though. </strong>
    Posted by 6fsn[/QUOTE]

    Are we married to the same man?  Our H's could be twins.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    You're not blowing it out of proportion. This kind of sht drives me INSANE WITH RAGE. BFF's husband does this and I don't know how she hasn't killed him - probably because she's always late, too, so it doesn't bug her as much as it would me. 
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    He just texted "wow traffic is terrible!"  there is a stretch of road that is stop and go and he's backed up a good 3 miles.  NO ISHT SHERLOCK.  I told him. 
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    My H has a completely different sense of urgency when it comes to his family vs. mine as well.  And when we go to my family he has to bring his laptop and a stack of books, you knonw, so he'll have something to do.  Because heaven forbid you should try speaking to people. 
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    His family is always buried in their phones and laptops.  Which is why I tend to fall asleep.  There is almost no reception in the woods.  It's a beautiful thing- no tv, phones, laptops.  One cousin does bring a projection thing and puts a kid movie on after smore's so the adults can get their drink on.

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  • WzzWzz member
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    at this point, i would not even bother with the sleeping bag unless he already got it. that plan goes out the door now that you've lost time, IMO.

    i'd rather focus my energy on getting there safely and spending as much time as possible with your people versus spending time on line with the pre-black friday shoppers and last minute supermarket people.

    good luck. it'll all work out.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    I feel like I'm watching a meltdown in slow motion.

    *melting wax*
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  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    I don't think you're overreacting.  I feel you.  

    But I think Wz is right.
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  • tawillerstawillers member
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    Can you guys just go straight to your parents' house and then HE can go find a sleeping bag by himself?
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