The best man and I have known eachother for all of the 10 years my fiance and I have been dating. He's a outgoing and charming fellow when he wants to be, but when he doesn't he's a complete baby and it's all about him. My fiance is super caring and when his bestman starts drilling into him about something he does get really upset, but won't distance himself b/c they've known eachother for so long. The best man (we'll call his Chris) does not like me, and is constantly asking my fiance if he's ready, if he's really sure, and so on. Chris cheated on his own fiance so often she finally dumped him. He still lives at home, and can't keep a job for more than a few months before he's on unemployment. He's actually currently starting a lawsuit agains his last employer for more unemployment (an yes his mom foots the bill). He got mad at my fiance when he asked him to be his best man b/c no one asked him if the date would be good, and he just may be in court and my fiance would be out of a best man. He also wants us to pay for his rental. I feel like this is our once in a life time day, and I don't want someone who has nothing but bad things to say about us IN the wedding. My fiance has another friend he's known just as long, who is going to be in our wedding. He's close, but doesn't talk as must to him b/c he moved out of town. We all used to hang out and went to college together. I've asked that he be the best man instead, but my fiance doesn't like this idea. He says he's known Chris too long. I really think too that if he asked Chris to just be a groomsman instead he'd flip and whine and complain and manipulate up til and through the entire wedding, and my fiance doesn't want to put up with it so he just keeps things as they are. Am I unreasonable to not want Chris in our wedding?