Burning Question #3

caraellen23

This board is seriously lacking in sex talk.

nicole8586

It picked up much more after the wedding. I had 4 cousins get prego last year and DH was freaking out that we would get prego before the wedding and he would loose his job. (Catholic school teacher)

jackiebean26

ususally 3-4 but since weve gotten engaged its been more towards 5-7.  i love my life. lol.

RecoveringActor

Nicole--SAME.  Before Gzilla and I worked together, he was a Catholic school teacher. 

Then he hurt his back really bad, then I got really sick...  Definitely not as much as we would both like.  But once his back is better... watch out

ButtonsPepper

Depends. Around a time I know I'm ovulating we do it more, when I have my PD we don't at all. and in between roughly 2 x a week.

paprika28

I voted 5-7... It's true.

Amerbutt81

I don't see my husband every other week.  Also, mother nature is a practical joker and I *always* get my period on the day shift.

FutureMrsTCT

3-4. Although that's b/c I have class 2 nights a week. I wish it was more.

happywithhim715

Our schedules suck.. I work 9-3 then 4-12am.... about 5 times a week. My DH works 8-7/8pm.... 5 days a week. Most nights I come home, we say how was work and pass out... I just got a new night job so our schedules should be better. We are slacking but its okay for me right now because I just got off of BC and we are definitely NOT TCT yet...

a.lemma4

I voted 5-7. What can I say, my FI is sexy

miguelhilary2010

Waking up at 5:20am really impacts your sex life.

Amerbutt81

>>Waking up at 5:20am really impacts your sex life. <<

agreed.  When I've been up since 3:50 am, it's the last damn thing on my mind when I go to bed.  haha.

a.lemma4

Having the same schedule helps. And neither of us get up at 5:20 AM. It would be a different story if we did haha.

Amerbutt81

>>Having the same schedule helps. And neither of us get up at 5:20 AM. It would be a different story if we did haha. <<

Those with "normal" jobs and the same schedule have no idea how lucky they are

Madam A

This poll makes me super jealous.

Beagle211

Not enough.

happywithhim715

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[QUOTE] />><< Those with "normal" jobs and the same schedule have no idea how lucky they are ;)
Posted by Amerbutt81[/QUOTE]

AGREED!!!

a.lemma4

I do and I take full advantage :-)

Amerbutt81

Confession:  it makes me feel better there are other people in the boat with me.  I get so SICK of getting side-eyed from friends.

mana8503

We'd have more if FI wasn't up at 430a and class until 10pm... THANK god for weekends when we can make it up with nooners and morning sex

a.lemma4

Mana - "Nooners" made me giggle

paprika28

I don't say I have had a 'normal' job the whole time we've been together, just recently did I start m-f, 8-4. He's 12 hr shifts, 3-4 days a week. But- we just always make time. It's a part of our relationship that we don't want to lose.

Madam A

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[QUOTE]Confession:  it makes me feel better there are other people in the boat with me.  I get so SICK of getting side-eyed from friends.
Posted by Amerbutt81[/QUOTE]

I think I'm in your boat, but it's not because of our jobs. And not because of me.

ButtonsPepper

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Burning Question #3 : I think I'm in your boat, but it's not because of our jobs. And not because of me.
Posted by Madam A[/QUOTE]

Is it just around the winter? Seasonal depression disorder hinders this.

Madam A

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Burning Question #3 : Is it just around the winter? Seasonal depression disorder hinders this.
Posted by ButtonsPepper[/QUOTE]

Notsomuch. In our relationship, the lady is more interested in fitting this into our schedule... Not that there aren't times when I am too tired and grumpy... But these are few and far between.

ooodsie

DH goes to bed way before I do, so when I get into bed he's already passed out.. so unless I wake him up... 

Amerbutt81

>>think I'm in your boat, but it's not because of our jobs. And not because of me. <<

Madam A, did you just throw the hubs under the bus?  hehe

Jesster153

I voted 3-4. 

We have normal jobs but we both also do things after work some nights (basketball for him, kickboxing for me, etc.) so I'm usually exhausted by 10 

Usually the 'count' kicks up a lot on the weekends

Madam A

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[QUOTE] />>think I'm in your boat, but it's not because of our jobs. And not because of me. << Madam A, did you just throw the hubs under the bus?  hehe
Posted by Amerbutt81[/QUOTE]

I suppose I did. But let me clarify - when we have sex, we have amazing sex. It's just that I'd like to have it every day and he doesn't prioritize it as high as I do. I guess it is flipped from the "norm" (if there even is a norm)...

Northstar1808

it really depends on the week. Sometiimes 5-7 sometimes 1-2. So I picked 3-4

mana8503

Lemma - glad I made you giggle with nooners.  I think I like them more than morning sex.

Bedroom Confession: the other day when we talked about if the husband gets home before the wife puts her sweats on he knows he has a chance to get some... I laughed because FI knows if he wants to get it in on a weeknight (and he doesn't have class), he should do so before before dinner.  After dinner I'm done.