Wedding Woes

Is something wrong with me?!

Hey everyone,

I work in the wedding industry at a design company. So, I know all the ins and outs of planning a wedding. But, for some reason, I am having a VERY hard time planning MY wedding. Not because I don't know what to do, I DO. I just don't want to. I don't get all excited about thinking about the colors and style and what my dress will look like or anything like that. I just get anxious…I just want to get married, not plan a wedding.

Is something wrong with me?...Does anyone else feel this way? I've been engaged since January, but we didn't start planning stuff until after I graduated from college in May, so it hasn't been THAT long. But still...

My fiancé is the one who is actually doing most of the planning right now, but he’s a creative director and producer for live events, so he LOVES doing this kind of stuff. I feel like the girl is the one who is supposed to be all excited about the wedding, and the guy just goes along with it. But it seems to be the other way around for us…can anyone relate?

Any thoughts?...HELP!

Re: Is something wrong with me?!

  • GBCKGBCK member
    First Anniversary 5 Love Its Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    yes, there's something horribly wrong w/ you becaues you don't conform to every gender-sterotype in existance...:-P
    Your problem isn't not being into planning and him being so, it's because you've convinced yourself that it's 'wrong'

    feel like the girl is the one who is supposed to be all excited about the wedding, and the guy just goes along with it. But it seems to be the other way around for us


    Work on getting over that and i"tll be much much better


  • KatyRoseMKatyRoseM member
    First Anniversary First Comment
    edited December 2011

    There is nothing wrong with you, talk to you Fi and see if he can make it better.  If you don't want a big wedding see why he does.  Talking about what you feel might help.

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