So I got engaged yesterday. It was more fantastic that I'd imagined. I'm really happy and really lucky. He calls him mom to let her know and a few minutes into the conversation he says "it's not the time, now is not the time." I asked him after he hung up what she said and she was talking about a stupid prenup! What the %^#&@ is wrong with this woman? This is the day I get engaged and she's talking about a prenup!
I would ask you to keep in mind that I am a very responsible girl with a college education and a job at a fortune 500 company. I am, and will never be after anyone's money. I knew she wanted us to have a prenup based on conversations with my fiance. He doesn't want one. Also, his family is just as well off as mine so I'm not sure what needs protecting. I think a prenup is a decision to be made between the two getting married, not their nosey parents.
Nevertheless, am I nuts for thinking bringing up a prenup is really really freaking rude on the day of your engagement?