so we've been together 5 years. Engaged over a year. We were planning to have our destination wedding very soon when he just now tells me we need a prenup because he "has a good job and a degree", so I guess my job and degree suck. Made me feel pretty awful to know he thinks I'm not worthy of him. We bought a house and I pay half the mortgage and bills. He said he wants the prenup so I don't take his house which completely caught me off guard. It's a first wedding for us both. No kids. I figured that if I pay half the house, in 30 years it's half mine. Besides if he thinks he needs a prenup and is planning the divorce that he shouldn't marry me. I want outsiders advice. Am I wrong to leave after this? I'm hurt so badly by this. I can't believe he thinks of me like this. Also can't believe he just now brought this up.