Hello "the knot" world
i am a new poster here, and i am just after some venting space feel free to share advice/opinions if you like.
So... The big day is in March 2011 and its getting bigger and bigger as everyone, namely the mother in law to be, puts in their ideas etc. Originally we were going to get married overseas, come back and have a party, until we casually mentioned this to said Mother in Law who blew her top and wouldn't have it. So here we are planning this big day and i am dreading it. (we decided the work of planning a wedding wouldn't be as bad as the back lash of getting married while on vacation) I really cannot wait to be married to mr. fiance, but i am really not fond of the big day, big money, big performance. Don't get me wrong I love going to weddings and i enjoy them, it just isn't my idea of wedding bliss!
Anyway, to cut the babbling short, I really want to can the wedding, and do one of two things, have a very small wedding with family and close friends and then have a bit of a celebration or do the Surprise wedding thing at a party...Fiance not keen. He was keen but his mum came over and wanted to talk weddings, she has some great ideas apparently...so now wants this day (he wont admit it but i think its because she may get angry if we change plans, i have no idea why though as she doesn't have $ involved or anythign...grrr).
I am so annoyed. should i be? perhaps i am being dramatic?? all i want is marry this man, the big hoopla isn't necessary for me....anyway, thanks for the vent.