My fiance and I are looking at a place that charges a 21% administrative fee. OK, fine, whatever. I assumed that this was the tip, but I read the fine print (today, pre-contract signing) and they make sure to say that it is not.
Are we socially required to pay the tip on top of this? If so, we will be adding something like 50% (21% admin+20%tip+8% tax) to the actual cost of the event.
Is this normal?