My husband and I had a quick ceremony before his deployment. Now I am planning the big ceremony. We are both super nerds but ok different levels. I am so confused on how to make this wedding us but not overcrowded. I am into zombies, superheroes, faeries, Oz and Wonderland. He is into D&D and mario, star wars. I am at a loss. Because I almost feel like I should also incorporate the Military feel too since that is where we met.