I need ideas for a super fun reception!

LindaBeans

So i can distract my husbands side of the family, so they don't ask why my family isn't at our wedding. Or at least not make a big deal of it.

My wedding is going to be small, maybe about 50 people. All hispanic, and what i wanted to do for my wedding was to make it fun and exciting, rather then making it special, because of the fact that my family won't be there

So far i have found for an idea is a photo booth and Wishing lanterns. Are there any other unique ways to celebrate? His family are Christians with a high sense of humor but not so much in the dancing area, so i wanted to come up with something that would make it fun, and that everyone can enjoy. If any one can throw me some ideas my way i'd greatly appreciate it! Outside or inside reception ideas are welcome!

-Linda

bbyckes

Your best bet for a "superfun" reception is good food, good drink and good music.  In all honesty, it's not a 7-year-old's birthday party, no one needs to be entertained.  Adults know how to have a good time.

The wishing lanterns and photobooth are a great idea - stick with that. 

apaadzzzz

I agree w/ PP.  The idea you already have are great, but the best weddings I have been to offered really great food and beverages.  It makes your guests feel very appreciated and and puts them in such a good mood they'll have a great time.  I also like not throwing everything at them at once. i.e My friends wedding started with a cocktail hour w/ open bar, butlered champagne(so small but really made a big impression), appetizers, and sushi bar (another wow factor).  Then after dinner, in addition to the regular bar, the brought out a specialty drink bar w/ ice luge.  Then about 2 hours after dinner, they rolled out a dessert buffet. How everything was brought out over the course of the evening, gave the guests one surpsrise after another.  So whatever you do I'd recommend introducing things one at a time.

Audrey&Austin

As a PP said, you don't need ti worry about entertaining your guests, they're not six or seven. I'm guessing your guests know how to enjoy themselves.

Audrey&Austin

bbyckes, I just wanted to say I love your profile picture! Its adorable!!! And from the Clevland Show

trix1223

Hire Justin Bieber.  Sounds like he'd be the perfect fit for your "vision" of OMG!!!!11!!!!! superfun.

aerinpegadrak

We just had really good food, a laid-back atmosphere, and an awesome venue (a penthouse in Vegas).  We got a lot of "best wedding EVER" feedback.

Why do you think his family would make a big deal about your family not being there?

Festiva

I personally love this idea...



http://www.etsy.com/listing/11318529/cootie-catcher-origami-wedding-favor?fref=fb_itemheart

Remember those from elementary school? Sooo cute and fun=)  You can DIY these, (I'm sure you can find directions online if needed) and turn them into a game of some kind.

love it!

AlannaF

We are doing an outdoor reception under a pavillion, and we are offering horseshoes, croquet, bocce ball, etc.  It may not be for everyone, but it's perfect for our crowd.  Although we are hiring a small jazz combo, we are not doing dancing, either - we just don't have a lot of dancers in our group, so the games will be a nice alternative.  However, we are just setting the games up off to the side and if people choose to go play, great. It's not like we'll force everyone out there to play.

Food stations are another good idea - anything to keep the crowd circulating and energized.

Incidentally, my side of the family isn't coming either.  I doubt the games will cover that fact up...but at least if someone asks, I can just say, "Oh, they couldn't make the long trip...oh wow, look at the finesse on that croquet swing!"  Don't feel obligated to offer long explanations of your family's absence.  Most people are well-intentioned with their questions, they just don't realize it may be a sore subject for you.

kbj88

2 words. Bouncy House.  Guests will be like "wtf is with the bouncy house?" it will distract them from your lack of family....thats for sure.

bbyckes

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[QUOTE]bbyckes , I just wanted to say I love your profile picture! Its adorable!!! And from the Clevland Show
Posted by Audrey&Austin[/QUOTE]

Thanks!  You totally made me smile! :)

jamiesgettinghitched

I hired a Caricaturist for our reception! He only charged $400 for 4 hours and was able to draw 15 people an hour! Super fun and made everyone laugh