I am two 2 days away from our wedding "party" which is very casual backyard setting. I have bought a TON of liquor and beer....I was going to just set up nicely on a table with the shot glasses and cups and chases in buckets of ice and let people serve themselves.....My mom thinks this is a bad idea and people will get out of hand or bottles of liquor might disappear (yeah she's a little paranoid) if I thought they were going to steal from me they certainly would not be at my house anyways. My step dad offered to "bartend" but honestly I'd rather my guests not have to deal with him that much if at all...he can be mean and downright rude.
So any suggestions? I think adults should be capable of pouring themselves a drink the way they like it?