Im getting married this coming June and just going to have immediate family attending. Were going to have a small dinner/ reception afterward but I want the real reception with extended family and friends to be the next day. Im kind of envisioning a really laid back BBQ in our backyard that people can just come and go as the please, but I feel like I could be going borderline graduation party. I still want this to have a reception feel but much more casual. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! thank you!!