Ok so early I posted a question about whether or not I should have a dance at my reception. Well after reading everyone's comments and talking about it with my fiance we have decided to have a dance. To keep it appropriate (my family is very conservative) it going to be a "big band" vintage theme. Frank Sinatra mostly haha. So my question is, in what order do the events at the reception go? I have been to dozens of weddings and none of them had a dance, so I don't know how to go about having everything flow nicely. We're not having a dinner but there will be a dessert table. Do we just...start dancing whenever?