My fiance and I are planning a wedding for early September 2012. I'm having trouble figuring out a coherent theme though. We couldn't be more different in terms of personal style - Librarian meets Biker. Literally. How do I incorporate both of our styles into our wedding? We both want it to be sophisticated and pretty, but I'd like it to reflect his personality in some way. Also, we would like to use red and peach or pink as our colors. Black leather + white lace? Without the tacky? Help...