I'm having a wedding at a community center. It off a bay so the outside appearance is really nice. The inside of the center is all tall white ceilings and has mirrors all around the hall with pillars in between. I will have magenta uplights in the pillars to give the hall some color. The only problem is there is a huge 20 ft stage in the back of the hall. The DJ said he'd prefer to set up there for safety issues since there will be kids at the wedding. My only concern is that he will have the focus. He suggested that I be on the floor along with the whole party but set up nicely. He said that the stage would just to big for us to be on and wouldn't allow people to come and greet us. Should I go with his suggestions???? Please help!!!