our wedding will be over about 9 pm and we are not doing an after party or anything. FI and I are going to a little B&B for the night. is it necessary to do a send off? how would this work? would the DJ announce it? also, i don't have anything special for guests to wave, throw, etc. finally i am concerned that family members and/or BP members may forget to collect some of the things we brought to the venue.
suggestions, advice, and ideas are welcome! thanks!