I have a long history of alocholics in my family, and neither FH or I drink... Because we're planning to do both the ceremony and reception at our church because it's more inexpensive and easier, alcohol would most likely not be allowed (though I haven't asked and don't really want to). His family, I believe, and most of our friends would be fine with this. We don't need alcohol to have fun. As for my side of the family, though, they love to drink... and my mom doesn't think that anyone will dance if the reception is dry, and she "doesn't want to see me embarassed". Just wondering what your opinions are on this issue...? Thanks so much...