Where are you getting married?We had a wedding about the same size at a B&B. We were able to have the caterers greet our guests as they arrived with a signature cocktail and light appetizers. We had the ceremony in the courtyard, immediately afterwards the caterer's passed out champagne, my brother gave a short toast as then directed everone inside for heavy appetizers for dinner. Not doing centerpieces or decorating the tables on the wrap around porch ended up being great because people were more likely to take their drinks after they ate and mingle. We burned music onto CDs for the sound system that went throughout the property.