I have no idea what to do, we are getting married in an area that doesnt have a lot to choose from especially for larger weddings. We pretty much got 4 places to choose from in a 3 town radius and yes before any one asks. A large wedding is important for us for many reasons. My FI pretty much vetoed 2 fo the places right off the bat. It then came down to the two other places. One that was all inclusive that I originally had my heart sent on. The other one was not and was the one he wanted. We went back and forth for awhile and then aggreed on the space he wanted. His mom told us she would contact them and get it all set. She told me the way their venue runs is they dont sign contracts till the Jan 1st of the year you want to book them becuause its a National Guard hall and they dont know when their unit will need the building. But that they pretty much know it wont be our weekend so they will pencil us in. That was 7 months ago. So this past week the man in charge approached my SMIL and stated that their prices went up-like doubled!! and since we didnt sign a contract or put money down we have to pay the new fee. I was like not in my budget!!!! SMIL was like well what did you expect we didnt actually book with them. I was like yeah your right we didnt beause you told me we couldnt-well the way she is making it seem now is that we could have but choose not to. I am so confused. I tried talking to my FI about it and his mom is going to put the money down this week. He just keeps saying it will all work out. Now i am thinking that we should look and look quick at the two places he vetoed right away. Becuase he vetoed them for the same reasons i basically vetoed the place we ended up choosing. I mean for all the work we were going to do to this hall ( like totally decorate the whole place so it doesnt look so much like a gym) we could do to one of the other places for a whole lot cheaper and its only 5 mins away from this original one. I cant believe everyone (his mom and him) doesnt think there is a problem here.