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B-Party Advice

stefwells23stefwells23
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Ok, so I know that this is a long time away from when the b-parties will be happening but my FI's friends have already planned what they are going to do.
 
Now, I am a pretty easy going person about most things but I have a few things that I would prefer not to happen at my Fi's b-party (IE: lap dances from strippers, going out and doing drugs for the first time). **Keep in mind my FI has never done a drug, smoked and rarely drinks.
One of his buddies told me last night that I can't know what is going on, because I will freak out.

Am I off base thinking that this is a crappy thing to say? I don't need to know what they are doing necessarily, but I just don't think them telling me I can't know because I will freak out is very fair. I feel like they are planning something shady.

Or am I just acting like a control freak?!
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  • jtolyjtoly member
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    Ya I wouldn't like that either but hopefully your FI will respect you and will not do the things his friends put him up too. For my first wedding we had a Bachleor/Bachleorette party in a hall with food, beer and my friends band. That kept us both out of trouble and everyone ad fun!
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  • gummibear2013gummibear2013 member
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    I am actually nervous about those same things.  I don't think your freaking out at all. 
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  • minionloverminionlover member
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    I don't think that you are out of line at all. Your FI should be able to respect you and your reasoning for not wanting strippers at his bparty. He should also be able to stand up to his friends and let them know that what is okay and what is not okay.
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  • stefwells23stefwells23
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    Jay is always respectful of me, and would never do anything compromising which I am so thankful for. I just hope his friends respect him and I enough not to plan anything questionable. They are keeping it a secret from both of us until the day of apparently. Fingers crossed!!
    Thanks for the input btw!
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  • tiny specktiny speck member
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    That would bother me too. Hopefully if worst comes to worst and his friends do put him in a situation he's uncomfortable with he'll have the sense to walk away. I know if anyone planned a bachelorette for me and there were strippers I would not be ok with that, and would just leave cause that's totally not my thing.
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  • stefwells23stefwells23
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    Well I am glad that I am not out of line thinking this was a little insensitive. I am really hoping that he was just teasing me, and I can just let it go and trust they won`t plan anything out of line. Thanks ladies :)

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