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FI found out when he'll be deploying

Right now I'm not going to worry about it. I figure there will be plenty of time after the wedding is over to start getting prepared for that. But this is another reason to have as many photos taken now as possible.

Re: FI found out when he'll be deploying

  • Good for you for not worrying about it until after the wedding :-) Let me know if you need to talk. My brother was sent over seas a few years ago.
  • I have a few friends in relationships in military.  I've seen how hard it is (although I can't imagine what it might actually be like).  Enjoy all your time with him and the process!  Can't wait to see all the new photos - you two are so cute!
  • Tracy - I might have to take you up on your offer at a later date :-)
  • I'm glad you're not worrying about it. I hope you guys will have some good time after the wedding with each other before he has to leave.
  • I know how you feel!  :)  I'm keeping my fingers crossed that my son won't get his orders until after April!!    I'm not sure if will hold up, but I pray about it every night!    He was deployed once and his turn is coming around the corner again! 
  • Ugh, take it one day at a time.  One of my best friends husband was deployed right after their first child was born, and their second was born while he was overseas the second time, so I know somewhat what you are thinking, feeling and dealing with!  Definately feel free to hit me up for some support whenever you feel you need it.  In the meantime, focus on your wedding and what a wonderful day it will be for both of you and your families and friends.
  • I'm glad you are not worrying about it and taking one day at a time. BTW, you new siggy pics are so cute! =)
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  • LOVE the new siggy pics!  I am glad you still have lots of time together.  Know that we will all be here for you, even after your wedding, so feel free to lean on us as much as you want/need.  *HUG*
  • I can't imagine what you're feeling, we're here if you need to vent. I hope you get some good quality time together before he is deployed.
  • Thats a good thing you're not worrying about it right now. I know that my FI will deploy next year (He just came home in January and they're already talking about another deployment ugh)... But yeah if I start to freak out about it now I wont be enjoying my time with him in the right way. Good luck girl and stay strong.
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