Hi everyone, This is my first post, I'm not really sure about where to even start. My fiancee and I have been engaged for almost a year, and now we're really starting to think about when and where it will be. I'm excited about it all, but to be honest I'm also feeling really overwhelmed about where to even start. We are thinking about having a destination wedding, because we were at one recently and just loved the overall feeling and vibe they had. The problem is, we live in NJ - how do we know about what is good and what isn't good in Mexico? (we're thinking maybe Mexico, but aren't really sure yet...) Anyway, I just wanted some help on where to start the whole process. How did you guys start looking for vendors and places (and most importantly food!) if you weren't actually there to do it all? HELP! Thanks, TB