FI and I are having trouble argeeing on the vows to use. He wants to use the "do you husband, take wife to be your wife..." then say "I do" vows. I like the ones where you have to repeat after the officiant like, "I wife, choose you husband to be my husband..." I just think that if we only say I do, then we say one line with the rings, we're only saying 2 small things during our entire ceremony. I feel like we should be speaking more. Which type of vows are you using?TIA!