O.k. I just tried to con my FI into telling me what he has pictured in his mind of my wedding dress. It didn't work. I just would like a little direction so I at least pick something in mind that he will like. I asked " long and flowy?" He said, "I'm not talking to you about dresses, that's your decision". I asked him if he had an opinion and he said sure I do but I'm not telling you! Great! I just want a little advise and he is not helping. Did your men help or give you girls any ideas? I know he will like whatever I get, yada, yada, but really I want to know a small discription!