My first RSVP I received for our AHR pissed me off! We had a family BBQ tonight and I just handed out some invites instead of mailing them. I had them addressed already so people would know who exactly is invited. I had one aunt fill out her RSVP and hand it back. I decided to wait until we got back home to look. I addressed the invite to her and her family. At most her RSVP should have been 4 people, and that's stretching it since the fourth person would be her 40 yr old daughter's boyfriend. Well at our family BBQ tonight she brought 2 strangers. I found out later that she took these two people in - she can't even afford her own rent! Well no surprise when I open the RSVP that she's wrote on the "how many chairs to save" 5 people. So I am assuming she is going to bring these people to my reception, and not my cousin who was invited! These people aren't invited! Especially when I was never introduced to them!!! This aunt isn't well liked and I feel like calling and telling her not to show up if she can't respect me enough not to bring strangers to my reception.