I can just feel the questions flowing today ladies, so sorry in advance! So as all of you know we have a LONG engagement, I am okay with it because it was the only way we could do a DW. My question is: would it be weird to have an E-party in May, that would that be about 8 months after our engagement was official and a year before our wedding. We definitely can't afford to do one anytime with in this year. And I would like to do a BBQ type thing, but since we live in OR May is usually the earliest the weather starts to cooperate. Thoughts are appreciated

TIA!