Would: Have a DW- seriously it’s the best decision I made in planning. Have a photographer and videographer. There are a few things that are unique to each of their perspectives and I’m so glad I did both. All the little details, I loved having them all. Do my TTD at sunset the next day, as opposed to the next morning. We had a bit more time to recover from the wedding craziness and were ready to go again that evening. Wouldn’t: I think looking back I could’ve dealt with more guests there. If it would have been possible I would have invited our siblings and possibly grandparents. I still wouldn’t want a big group, but just immediate family would still have been fine. Although I know if I would have invited our siblings and grandparents they wouldn’t have been able to come because of medical and financial reasons.