Yesterday a friend and I went to look at wedding dresses and I found one and put a deposit on it. Well, since we were out I wanted to show her the ring that FI and I picked out. It is in lay-a-way. Him and I went in June shopping for a ring and he put a deposit on one. Well when we get to the jewelry store, they tell us the name is there but no record of the purchase. To make a long story short I found out that he went back a couple of hours later and got his money back. I went crazy. I went back to the dress store and got my deposit back and told him it was over. How can he do this to me. I was so sick. I was nearly throwing up in the car. I could not stop crying for hours. I was so upset my friend had to leave work and come spend time with me b/c I couldn't stop crying. I couldn't talk. I was a basket case. Not a pretty sight. Well, he kept calling me and I wouldn't let him talk. I kept hanging up on him. When I finally let him talk and said "please don't do this"-"don't ruin this" "let me handle this" Blah-Blah-Blah. Well he finally told me that he brought me to the jeweler so he could see what style I like and my ring size. He then went shopping at a couple of other stores to find the right ring. He wanted a bigger diamond and he wanted it to be a surprise and told me not to ask any more questions. He said that he thought about it and he wanted me to be able to look at this ring and think of him. He wanted it to be special. I still just feel like crying. HE BETTER BE TELLING ME THE TRUTH!!! LOL!!! IHe better not be getting me some ring out a pawn shop or off the back of a truck. LOL!! He truly is a wonderful man. I ruined his surprise. I feel like a big turd!!!!