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I may just kill them if they mess up my programs

My MOH and her child and husband are all in the wedding. MOH and GM are considering divorce. IF they go through with it what do I do? Both still in the wedding? Him drop out? Do I ask him not to be in it or does he just figure it out himself. I don t want their DRAMA at my wedding!!!

Re: I may just kill them if they mess up my programs

  • What a horrible situation! I am sorry you have to deal with it --- and sorry MOH and GM are going through this.What to do is a very personal decision based on how everything plays out. Is it important to you and/or FI that GM still be in the wedding? If the divorce goes through, are the two civil afterwards, or is it really messy. Maybe it will unfold naturally - Assuming that you are close with MOH and not necessarily GM, maybe he will chose to drop out himself. Has everyone's trip been booked? So many factors to consider.
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  • Ok, this is going to come off snarky but step back and look at what your saying.  I'm sorry that your programs might be wrong but seriously?  This woman is supposed to be your best friend and I'm sure she's hurting and you're worried about programs?  Support her and wait it out.  They very well might work things out in the next six months.  If not, do something cheap for the replacement programs.  You can print something lovely yourself.  I'm sure your just stressed about the wedding planning, GL.
  • Being upset about the programs maybe being messed up, instead of being concerned for your friend who is obviously going through something incredibly tough right now... sounds a little cold to me. You can easily print programs from Vista Print or DIY programs at home on the cheap.
  • Perhaps you should sell your ring and have your programs reprinted.  Ditch them both.  I'm sure you won't be friends with them in the future any way.
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