I would suggest that you look in the yellow pages under couples counseling, or family counseling and call a couple of places to see if they offer these classes or they might refer you to someone that doesn. I think this is your best bet for taking classes but not having to incorporate religion into your class. I'm really excited for the class, I know fi is a little freaked out by it because it involves feelings and expressing them, go figure haha But he said if I felt strong about taking them that he would defintaley jump on board. I'll let you girls know tomorrow how my class went :O) Good Luck with your search, let me know how it goes.Natalie