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Poll?

I'm bored and was lurking on the ND board.  I'm stealing their poll.   How often does your FI/DH have guys night out? This can include poker night, any sort of sport leagues, fantasy sports, bar, etc.

Re: Poll?

  • Maybe once a month. We're not big on going out and partying...we usually just have dinner & drinks with other couples when we go out. We're usually on the same page when it comes to going out...we either both want to or neither of us want to.
  • We also usually hang out together with other friends and couples. We go out with a group of people every Friday night for dinner and drinks. I try to have "girls nights" every other week (dinner, drinks, movie, etc.) and when I do that he will usually have a poker night, watch sports, or go camping. My FI is really into the outdoors (hunting, fishing, canoeing, camping, ANYTHING) so he does have a lot of weekend/overnight trips to do that stuff. So to sum it all up, I guess we do spend a lot of time away from each other and with our friends...which I think is important in any relationship. Everyone always needs a little "alone" time!
  • We also hangout more with couples/groups of friends. Now that football season is back, he will prolly watch a few games with the guys.
  • When we were together, he never did.I mean we play poker every Wednesday and sometimes Friday or Saturday, but we go together 'cause we both love playing. And we hang out with his buddy frequently, but he is married and we hang out together too.
  • He usually has a once a week thing. However lately it's been less and less.
  • Fi doesn't do that guys night out just because we are so busy. Years ago he used to take Jujitzi (I can't spell that) classes once a week with one of his buddies, but now that he is stationed 2.5 hours away we spent our free time together. I think he will get back into doing stuff with friends after we're married and he doesn't have to travel on his days off to see me. We do go out with other couples for dinner or drinks about once a month.
  • We don't have a set guys night out type deal.  He'll just say I'm going out to eat with a buddy or he'll go to a movie with his friends but we have bbqs and poker parties at our house every 3 months or so.  Girls talk and hang out while the guys play poker. 
  • Find used to have a guys night every week. Now he will go hang out if I'm non in the Mood to drink or be social. Friday nights typically this month we will of spent like 11 nights away from. Each other. It's KILLiNG me. I know it's healthy for the relationship but he is more comforter :) I'd say maybe one to two nights month he will toto friends without me. Like most of you girls we do ALLOT of couples things I almost always am the first to "check out"so he gets guy time then!!
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  • Autzen - you must be ready for the weekend.  I almost need a translator to understand your post, lol.
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