Ever notice how a simple thing as having a ring on your finger starts a tidal waves of opinons from everyone you have ever known- solicited or not?
As a whole I have done fine with everyones opinions. Some are good, some need some work, but at the end of the day I am way more opinionated then anyone else so I just let it roll off my shoulders....but the one opinion that drives me absolutely bonkers is this one : "you still have 9 months" or "you are planning so early".
Do we really live in a society where planning is completely meaningless? Where procrastination rules? It has completely flabbergasted me how often someone has said this to me. Granted I do know I have plenty of time to make decisions, and I am not rushing anything, i just know what i want so whats so wrong with going for it? I don't need 9 months to make up my mind. Not to mention this is completely my personality, I am and never will be a wishy washy person.
Lastly, i just feel like when someone says this to me it is because they were poor planners for their wedding which left them with an over abundance of crap to do the month before...or even the week before. So this is a backhanded way of them showing their jealousy.
Anyway, just kinda felt like throwing that out there because I personally am tired of hearing it. :-)
August Siggy Challenge- The cake
