Are these necessary? FH and I have talked it over before, and neither of us are okay with us going out with just the girls or just the guys and celebrating our last night of "freedom." Just because we are not married does not mean we do not have a commitment to one another, ya know?
Don't get me wrong, I do trust my FH. But I don't necessarily trust his friends, or my friends really. And yes, I know, all we have to do is lay out suggestions for what I want or what he wants, but I'm sure we all know that that doesn't necessarily mean what we want is what will happen. Right?
Instead, what if FH and I just got our wedding party together (maybe even some additional friends) and went out together? We would not call it a Bachelor or Bachelorette Party, because I know we aren't allowed to throw parties for ourselves. But it'd just be some old friends having fun together.
Thoughts?