This last shower is starting to drive me crazy. It's supposed to be at the beginning of June. On a day that really didn't work for me. But, who cares if it works for the bride? D's mom certainly doesn't. There have been no invitations sent out and D's mom hasn't said or asked me anything about it since TELLing me when it would be because that's when it works for HER friends. Ppl who aren't even invited to the wedding or at home reception. Which is a whole other issue...
Now my MOH is asking me if this is even happening because there is something going on with her family the same day that she'd like to attend, but she will go to the shower if she has to. You know, so I don't have to be alone amoung a bunch of stranger. Or in case things get really weird and uncomfortable, I'll have someone there to back me up. So she can't make plans either way because we haven't gotten invitations, yet and are both in limbo on what's going on.
I know D's mom is past the time when you are supposed to send out shower invitations since it's now less than a month away. I could tell her this or have D tell her, but I don't want to. I don't want this shower. I don't want to pretend for her friends that eveything's grand and that I don't feel set up to make D's mom look good. I don't want to help her in anyway with it because I don't want to have it. UGH!