Hi Ladies...so after 2 hellish weeks at work, I attempted to call the Parks & Rec dept to book our pavilion and instead of being able to book the pavilion, I have to wait until next month. Fine. However, she then proceeds to ask me 20 more questions about things I had no idea...ugh. I asked if I could put lights up in the pavilion...was told no...it's only 15 amp service and you'd blow the circuit...great...so now we're having fluorescent lights that are in the pavilion (I'm thinking I'll look on ebay for battery operated lights). Then she asks if we have a beach wedding permit...a what?!?!? She asks who I'm working with and proceeds to tell me she's never heard of the company and now I'm just done. So the mature part of me get overwhelmed and shuts down. Mind you I did this phone call at work on a break...so I was in a great mood after that.
FI gets home and I vent to him...he proceeds to tell me that the reason we're doing the FL wedding vs home wedding is to save money. Fine...but I don't want it to look white trash...so now I'm worried that it's going to look white trash and just be trashy because I can't dress up the pavilion like I wanted! I told him that I don't want people judging...which is nice he said, well, if they don't like it then they're not our friends. (Guys brains work so differently)
I was fighting back tears because I want it to be nice...good thing FI didnt' see because I'm sure he'd say I'm working myself up and he doesn't want me to get all anxious! News flash...planning a wedding is stressful!
Thanks for the vent...and have a drink for me...I can't even have a glass of wine because I'm on call...
Okay...stepping off my pity pot! (And sigh)...