This is going to be lame, so I apologize in advance! I'm at work and can't be too graphic.
When your FI/H is feeling frisky (not in bed) and just walks up and grabs/touches you, what body part does he usually grab?
Are you or your H more experimental?
Do you like "movies"? Does your H? Do you watch them together?
Do you like nekkid pics of the opposite sex?
Do you get turned on by sex scenes in regular movies?